by CHICKMELIONfreelance
There is no one who can see you better than yourself. Now is the time to take personal responsibility for the beauty you truly are. Don't wait for others to acknowledge your finer points. Love yourself! and start now!
The more open minded you can be the bigger you dare to think, the greater are the opportunities and possibilities that present themselves before you. This is called creative visualization, a mental technique of using thoughts to change the balance of energy around you which brings changes to your environment in accordance with them. It requires you to first be very aware of the energy you create for yourself. What mood are you in right now, and if your answer is negative.... change it up right away! Your smile is beautiful, flash it around. Your whole vibe and outlook will change along with it!
We have all met one or two people in our lives who seem to exude both confidence and the Midas touch. (I know I have been a bit green eyed over them from time to time.) Their vibe is alluring... magnetic! And if asked, there is a very good chance that this individual would admit to practicing both a positive attitude and visualization techniques. Most successful people use it consciously or unconsciously, attracting the success they want in their life by visualizing their goals as already accomplished. They literally see it through to the end, only they script the ending as being a very successful one, as opposed to leaving all up to chance. And you must practice doing this too. Script yourself a happy fulfilled ending. See it play out over and over in your mind until it becomes a habit that will dictate your focus, your mind and body on a course straight towards that goal.
Does this work? Of course it does! Most of us visualize daily without even paying attention to what we are doing. Unfortunately we all can remember our, “I can’t” moments; they seem to be conditioned as habits where we have told ourselves that we are unlucky, unloved, unattractive, etc, ...actually making these things realities for ourselves. But by thinking of the good things and thinking of them often as a part of our regular routine, we are re-conditioning our subconscious and creating positive energy through guided imagery.
On a final note, when you do realize the success you have worked so hard towards, by all means reward yourself. Again, don't wait for someone else's acknowledgement of your good efforts. Rewards are tokens of encouragement that can spur you onwards and upwards. By you acknowledging your own efforts , you are in control of your own personal responsibility and happiness. Then you will never falling short of recognizing and feeding from the positive vibe your victory created. Use this momentum to propel yourself forwards into a well rounded and beautiful you!